Saturday, July 25, 2009

So many times we hear the words "be thankful for what you have". Sometime we just agree for the sake of agreeing but don't really think that there is much to be thankful for in our lives, we just focus on what's NOT right. Another saying we hear sometimes is "it could be worse". Yes, it could always be worse, but who wants to hear that? We don't want to be reminded about how bad some other people actually have it, ruins our pity party.

I found this story on the internet. It made me think of how good I actually have it even if my life isn't anything like I thought it would be 20 years ago. Sometimes life throws you a curve, but if you can make the best of it, smile through it all, remember that there is a purpose for everything that happens in your life (even if it just doesn't make sense right now) and just keep remembering how lucky you are and just how much worse it could be - life isn't so bad.


Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room. Instead the angels were given a space in the cold basement. As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied...

"Things aren't always what they seem."

The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel "How could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him," she accused. "The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let their cow die!"

"Things aren't always what they seem," The older angel replied.

"When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it. Then last night as we slept in the farmer’s bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead.

"Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes this is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it until some time later.

Think about this:
*Should you find it hard to get to sleep tonight; just remember the homeless family who has no bed to lie in.
*Should you find yourself stuck in traffic, don't despair. There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.
Should you have a bad day at work, think of the man who has been out of work for the last three months.
*Should you despair over a relationship gone bad; think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.
*Should you grieve the passing of another weekend; think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week, for $15.00 to feed her family.
*Should your car break down leaving you miles away from assistance; think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.
*Should you notice a new gray hair in the mirror; Think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.
*Should you find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking, "what is my purpose"; be thankful. There are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.
*Should you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; Remember, things could be worse. You could be them!!!


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  1. Wonderful post Audrey!! It's a glass half full, glass half empty kind of thing. A day doesn't go by that I don't think about those less fortunate than myself but more importantly...a day doesn't go by that I try to remind my son of that. Our children are the future and sometimes we forget to remind them of the most important things:)

  2. Very nice post! The earrings are beautiful!

    Jillian :)

  3. What a wonderful post.We all need reminding often..

  4. Another beautiful Sunday post over at Audrey's Country Crafts!!

    "Should you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; Remember, things could be worse. You could be them!!!"

    ^I love this one. When someone treats me badly, I try to just tell myself that they must be very, very unhappy. And I am grateful that I never feel the need to treat others that way.

  5. So true! How many times in my own life has this happened- where I feel like I have been cheated out of something, only to have something better around the corner! These were great words to live your life by!

  6. Thanks for the perspective. :)

  7. Now that is very powerful. It reminds me of a friend whose wife died at age 43 leaving him with 3 young children. He took them to a counseling center for grieving children and there discovered that in truth, his family was in pretty good shape.
    Thanks for sharing this story.


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